
Beyond the Hype - series on AI and the future of work

The Borrowed Self
Finding Relevance in the Age of AI
What happens when we outsource not only work, but thought itself?
I belong to that threshold generation that worked largely analog in high school and then quickly became digital in college. My class was among the last to be offered Typing rather than Computer Science. We learned to work with paper files, handwritten notes, binders, and physical archives just as the world around us was beginning to migrate to floppy disks, hard drives, databases, and eventually the cloud.
I still remember that transition. Giving up that connection to the physical world and trusting a universe of bits and bytes felt counterintuitive at first. I backed up files obsessively onto stacks of floppy disks and printed every important document, carefully filing them away in binders that have long since found their way to the landfill or are now quietly collecting dust and mold somewhere in the basement.
Part of me simply did not trust that information could exist somewhere I could neither see nor touch.
Like most people, I eventually adapted.
And once we surrender certain forms of control, we tend to surrender them surprisingly quickly.
We struggle to let go of control, to trust—whether other humans or machines—to perform important parts of our workflow. Yet once that trust is established, we often overcome our initial hesitation with remarkable speed. Before long, we find ourselves outsourcing more and more of our mundane tasks to other entities, whether they are made of flesh, metal, or code.
Take navigation, for example.
I still remember planning road trips through the American West with a giant US Road Atlas spread across the kitchen table. I loved plotting scenic detours, estimating distances, and imagining the landscapes waiting somewhere beyond the next highway exit. Then came GPS. First as clunky portable devices that were often stolen from parked cars before their owners had even figured out how to use them properly, then as built-in navigation systems, and eventually as apps on our phones, quietly guiding us while simultaneously streaming music or podcasts.
Ask me to read a paper road map today and I can feel the anxiety rising.
This is how technological outsourcing often works. At first we resist it and mistrust it. Then we cautiously adopt it because it is useful. Before long we can barely imagine functioning without it.
And to be fair, many of these changes genuinely improve our lives. I do not miss arguments between drivers and co-drivers over which exit to take and how to read a map properly. I do not miss overflowing filing cabinets or hauling heavy binders through airports. I am perfectly happy to let files live in the cloud.
Yet every technological advance subtly alters our relationship with our own capabilities. I know this because I can feel it in myself. My sense of direction is weaker than it once was. I no longer remember phone numbers the way I used to. Tasks that once required effort have quietly migrated to devices and applications. None of this happened overnight. It happened gradually, one useful convenience at a time.
That gradual shift is what fascinates me. Not because I believe we should reject technology, but because every convenience carries a trade-off. Most of the time, the exchange is probably worthwhile. Yet every now and then it is worth pausing to consider what, exactly, we are giving up in return.
Writing has increasingly forced me to confront that question.
Long before I worked in leadership development, coaching, and organizational consulting, I was a storyteller. Over the years I completed several manuscripts, including a historical novel set in seventeenth-century Austria and, more recently, a collection of short stories centered around food across different periods of history. Like many writers, I have experienced both the exhilaration and frustration of trying to bring ideas fully to life on a page.
Anyone who has seriously attempted writing knows that it is both a curse and a blessing.
It has always been lonely, demanding work to transform images, feelings, and ideas into language, whether the writer sat bent over parchment with a quill, hammered away at a typewriter, or typed on a modern keyboard. Yet there is something intoxicating about struggling to create a scene, making a character come alive, being both the master of your characters' fates and, at times, just as surprised as they are by where the story takes them.
There have been nights when conversations, scenes, and images arrived so quickly that my fingers struggled to keep pace. Hours disappeared without my noticing. At other times I spent an entire evening wrestling with a single paragraph, searching for the one sentence that finally revealed itself at two in the morning, bringing with it a disproportionate sense of relief and satisfaction.
Writers have always used tools, of course.
Sitting next to me as I write this are my old American Heritage Dictionary and my Synonym Finder, both with spines broken through years of use. I was surrounded by books then and I am surrounded by books now. For my historical fiction they were indispensable. Some became companions of a sort, heavily annotated, bookmarked, and revisited over many years. I share an intimacy with some of those books because we have spent so much time together.
Eventually digital tools entered the process as well. Websites such as Thesaurus.com and Etymonline replaced many of my reference books. They lacked some of the intimacy of leafing through well-worn pages, but they also removed friction and allowed ideas to flow more freely.
Later came editing software such as ProWritingAid. I love it. Editing has always been one of the most grueling parts of writing, and good software makes that work faster, cleaner, and more professional. In many ways it is one of the reasons I am confident that manuscripts which sat unfinished on my laptop for years may finally see the light of day.
Then came ChatGPT, Claude, and a growing ecosystem of generative AI tools. Suddenly I had access to something far more powerful than a dictionary, a thesaurus, or an editing program. I had a research assistant, brainstorming partner, sounding board, developmental editor, and idea generator available at any hour of the day.
All of that is genuine progress.
Yet it also raises a question that feels fundamentally different from the ones posed by earlier technologies. The issue is not whether these tools are useful. They clearly are. Nor is it whether they improve productivity. They unquestionably do. The more interesting question is where exactly we draw the line between assistance and surrender. At what point do we stop outsourcing execution and begin outsourcing thought itself?
I am not asking this from a place of nostalgia. I have no desire to return to some romanticized analog past. Technology has improved my work and my life in countless ways.
What interests me is how quietly these transitions occur. We stop navigating and our sense of direction weakens. We stop memorizing and our recall changes. We stop calculating and our numerical intuition fades. Each individual shift is small, almost invisible. Taken together, however, they gradually reshape the relationship we have with our own abilities.
If that is true for navigation, memory, and calculation, what happens when we increasingly outsource research, drafting, synthesis, interpretation, and reflection?
I am not sure any of us fully know the answer yet. Perhaps this is what makes the current moment different from many earlier technological transitions. We are no longer outsourcing only physical labor or repetitive calculation. Increasingly, we are outsourcing activities that sit much closer to judgment, creativity, reflection, and identity itself.
The question is no longer merely what machines can do. The more interesting question may be what capacities we choose to continue exercising ourselves. Perhaps this is the deeper issue hiding beneath many of our conversations about artificial intelligence.
Not simply:
What can be automated?
But rather:
What parts of ourselves are we willing to hand over? And which parts should remain firmly in human hands?
I use AI. I will continue using AI. Most of us probably will.
But every once in a while I feel tempted to dig out that old crumpled Road Atlas, spread it across the kitchen table, and trace the next journey through the American West by hand.
Not because it is more efficient.
But because there is a difference between reaching a destination and knowing how to find your way there.
Key Themes Explored
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Artificial Intelligence and the Future of Work
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Human Agency and Cognitive Offloading
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Professional Identity and Human Capabilities
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Creativity, Writing, and Knowledge Work
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Technology, Memory, and Attention
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Human Judgment and Critical Thinking
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Learning, Adaptation, and Lifelong Growth
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